Wear Your Relationship Values

Gottman Inspired Collection

Wear your relationship values. Gottman Method apparel, candles, paper goods, and the books that will change your relationship.

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Gottman Method Books

Essential reading from Drs. John and Julie Gottman

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

by John Gottman & Nan Silver

"The Essential Gottman Guide"

The definitive guide based on 40 years of research. This is the book I recommend to every couple—it's practical, research-backed, and transformative. Learn the seven principles that can make your marriage work. - Darren

Eight Dates
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Eight Dates

by John Gottman, Julie Gottman, Doug Abrams & Rachel Carlton Abrams

"Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love"

Eight transformative conversations every couple needs to have. From trust to sex to money, this book guides you through the essential topics that build lasting intimacy. - Darren

The Gottman Card Decks
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The Gottman Card Decks

by John Gottman & Julie Gottman

"Love Maps, Open-Ended Questions & More"

Interactive card decks to deepen your connection. These are fantastic tools for building love maps and sparking meaningful conversations. I use these with couples all the time. - Darren

Therapeutic Books

Brené Brown, Curt Thompson, and other essential therapeutic reads

Daring Greatly
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Daring Greatly

by Brené Brown

"How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms"

Brené Brown's groundbreaking work on vulnerability and shame. Vulnerability isn't weakness—it's the birthplace of love, belonging, and connection. Essential reading for anyone wanting deeper relationships. - Darren

The Gifts of Imperfection
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The Gifts of Imperfection

by Brené Brown

"Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be"

Embrace who you are with wholehearted living. Brown teaches us to cultivate courage, compassion, and connection—the foundation of authentic relationships. - Darren

Anatomy of the Soul
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Anatomy of the Soul

by Curt Thompson

"Surprising Connections Between Neuroscience and Spiritual Practices"

Dr. Thompson bridges neuroscience and spiritual formation. Understanding how our brains work helps us understand how we relate to God and others. Profound and practical. - Darren

The Soul of Shame
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The Soul of Shame

by Curt Thompson

"Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves"

Shame is one of the most destructive forces in relationships. Thompson shows how to recognize shame's voice and replace it with God's truth. Healing and hope-filled. - Darren

Christian Books

C.S. Lewis, Gary Thomas, and faith-based relationship wisdom

Mere Christianity
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Mere Christianity

by C.S. Lewis

"The Timeless Classic"

Lewis's masterpiece on the essentials of faith. His insights on love, virtue, and human nature are foundational for understanding Christian relationships. A must-read. - Darren

The Four Loves
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The Four Loves

by C.S. Lewis

"Affection, Friendship, Eros, Charity"

Lewis explores the four types of human love with brilliant clarity. Understanding these distinctions transforms how we love our spouse, friends, and God. Deeply insightful. - Darren

The Screwtape Letters
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The Screwtape Letters

by C.S. Lewis

"Letters from a Senior to a Junior Devil"

Lewis's satirical masterpiece reveals how spiritual warfare affects our relationships. Witty, convicting, and eye-opening about the subtle ways we sabotage love. - Darren

Sacred Marriage
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Sacred Marriage

by Gary Thomas

"What If God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy?"

Marriage isn't just about happiness—it's about holiness. Thomas shows how God uses marriage to shape us into Christ's image. Challenging and transformative. - Darren

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Research-Based Wisdom

Every saying is inspired by 40+ years of relationship research from the Gottman Institute. Wear the science of love.

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